The Big Change Stories

Toby’s Big Change: A New Sister

A reassuring story that helps big kids understand change in a growing family.

Toby is six years old and happy with life just the way it is — until his parents share some big news: he’s going to be a big brother. At first, Toby feels excited, but as the baby’s arrival gets closer, worry and sadness creep in. He wonders if his parents will still have time for him and if everything he loves will change forever. Through honest conversations, reassurance from Mom and Dad, and meeting his baby sister for the first time, Toby learns that while change can feel scary, it can also bring new love, connection, and joy.

The Heart of the Story

Change doesn’t mean losing love — it means love can grow.
It’s okay to feel excited and worried at the same time, and sharing those feelings helps families grow stronger together.

How This Story Helps Children & Families

• Normalizes big feelings children may have about a new sibling, including fear, jealousy, and sadness

• Encourages open communication between children and caregivers through gentle dialogue

• Builds emotional resilience by showing that change can be managed with support and reassurance

• Strengthens family connection by reinforcing that children are still deeply loved and valued

• Includes reflection questions to support meaningful parent-child conversations about change and support

Why Parents Love It

This story gives families the language they need to talk about welcoming a new baby — without pressure, guilt, or overwhelm — making it an ideal read for families preparing for or adjusting to life with a new sibling.